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To work successfully with other people it helps enormously if THEY LIKE YOU!
To be able to connect with your client and form an immediate and authentic rapport is probably the ultimate aid to any therapist. If you can put someone at ease they will relax, begin to trust and the session will flow.
There is a lot of intellectual advice given about this subject. We are told that if we mirror the client, it creates rapport. It is more accurate to say that mirroring may help to increase rapport a little, but in reality, techniques do not create rapport.
Vibration creates rapport!
The way we interact with others is not so much about what occurs in our heads, but in our hearts. The signals we emit are given out whether we 'mirror 'or not!
The only truly effective way to improve
our rapport building skills is to
IMPROVE OUR RAPPORT WITH OURSELVES!
THIS is what the client senses - how comfortable, happy, relaxed and contented we are with ourselves creates the vibration we transmit to our client.
~ By removing our limiting beliefs to increase our self- esteem
and self -acceptance we can effortlessly experience a more
authentic rapport with the people we work with ~
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